Tuesday, July 23, 2013

An Addiction or a Commitment?

I watch movies. I watch tons and tons of movies. It doesn't matter if it's the worst movie ever or if I've seen it 57 times, I'm watching a flick everyday. Sometimes I watch two. In case I haven't pounded this point home yet, I love love love film.

I was sharing this with one of my favorite clients.
Him: “Wow. Really? Now is that an addiction or a commitment?”.
Me: “Whattya mean?” Because in my mind, it's not drugs and it's not booze.
Him: “In other words, is that something you set out to do this year? Is it your goal to watch 365 movies?”

Ahhhhh. Very interesting.

An addiction is something you don't set out to do. You do it just because. You do it even if you don't want to. It keeps you in a rut. A commitment is something you set out to do. You aspire to do it. It takes time and discipline and it can change your path. An addiction can keep you away from success and a commitment gets you on your way.

Don't get me wrong. There's nothing inherently wrong with watching flicks. That could actually be a commitment for some of us. (Like a film student or something) But if you should be spending time on your health or marriage or maybe starting your big dream, movies should get knocked off the list of priorities. A new list should be made with new commitments and disciplines.

What's your “movies”?

2 comments:

  1. Drumline - I'll stop and watch it anywhere! I've even spent hours watching youtube videos of college drumline competitions. The rhythm is intoxicating.

    Are you growing and learning from watching watching movies or is it a way to turn your brain off?

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  2. I hear ya! I blackout on YouTube a lot. That's another thing I've stopped doing. Been trying to read to go to sleep now. Much better

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